Friends, Forever

Someone asked me today, why do we make best friends in college and not later, here is my response

"We enter in college at the age of life, where we still have an unaware ignorance about some evolved human trades. And, that rawness before concoction, allows others to see what we actually are, that opens our heart and exchange feeling without any thoughts. We still do not know how to judge people, we only know how to make and have fun with them. We do not know what to hide and what to share, so we go on and on, without any care. We are still learning how to compete with them so, we decide to complete things together. We genuinely do not know what are more important, as it is defined in the world, so always say the one word, ^%^%. As we grow old or rather I would say, gain experience of life, then that ignorance is changed in to illusionary enlightenment, and that makes us aware of anyone before we meet, that controls our conscience before we speak, that orchestrates before we act. That superficiality of human awareness makes this social animal very isolated as they grow in their age. Interestingly, some call them maturity, some priority or same says “this is how life is”. But, while we gain experience in life, if we still retain our ignorance and be curious about them, while we increase our knowledge, if we still be little stupid to learn about them, while we know how to present and control but if we still open a gap where they can enter, I feel we can make and have same goods friends throughout our journey of life. The dichotomy is that, the most important things of human life are friends, we make them when we don’t have any thing in life, but we don’t when we have everything in life! Cheers! "

Avishekh Singh